Superficiality

selflove is a process. We all have to learn to respect who we are. We all have to learn to love ourself.

But Who are we ?
if we are looking into a mirror, we can see just the cover. But is it the cover of ourself ?
your mind is not thinking „wow, you are looking gorgeous“. 

You can only think of the things you want to change or what you want to be.

For what. 

For the people on dating apps and people on social media? Those things are based on superficiality.

Those kind of people believe that they deserve someone better anyway. Someone who is „more and more and more“- of everything.

They only know how you look like. And they don’t care who you really are.

You are so much more. 

You have a heart. And an eye for real people. For who they really are.

What will stay? -Is it your shape, -your clothes, -your job , -is it the way you smile at someone or to get the love you deserve.

Im not surprised about that. 

It’s only hard to understand what is important for people.

Think about that.